When to register, where to register, how to register: no one expects it to be so hard. Warning: bridal registries offer a perfect storm of needs vs. wants. Bride and groom should do this together. Otherwise you will end up possessing gifts that only one person wants. You've been warned.
WEDDING SECRET #83. PITFALL: MANY ITEMS AREN'T IN STOCK. EVER.
The deals too good to pass up are often impossible to get. You and a few thousand other couples want the same deals on the dishes below cost. Hope for, but do not expect to receive the most heavily discounted items on our registry.
WEDDING SECRET #84. REGISTER WITH NATIONAL STORES OR STORES WITH ONLINE REGISTRIES.
Make it easy for out-of-town guests. They don't need to lug gifts through airports and hotels. And your Web-crazy friends
will adore you for saving them a trip to the mall.
WEDDING SECRET #85. MIX THE TRADITIONAL WITH THE SPECIALTY REGISTRIES.
Some traditional family members and friends won't understand your plasma television registry, so be sure to include at least one traditional department store registry.
WEDDING SECRET #86. THE KITCHEN HAS BECOME THE LIVING ROOM OFAMERICAN HOMES. LETıS LIVE IT UP.
You may be an amateur chef or never cook at all, but invariably, friends and family flock to the kitchen to socialize. Make sure your registry includes basic appliances and cookware.
WEDDING SECRET #87. PITFALL: DONıT INSIST THAT GUESTS SHOP THE REGISTRIES.
Your favorite Aunt may have a family heirloom in mind for you. Your boss may prefer
a cash gift. Remain patient and flexible with how your friends and family choose
to express their love and congratulations.
WEDDING SECRET #88. HONEYMOON REGISTRY INSTEAD OF TRADITIONAL.
If you already suffer from "too much stuff," consider the honeymoon registry. Family and friends may contribute towards your hotel stay, activities, airline tickets, and more.
101 WEDDING SECRETS
